As teachers and/or parents, we all know the importance of getting the day started on a positive note. It really can impact the trajectory of our entire day so it’s critical to be mindful of the first words we speak and actions we take each morning.
I once read (I don’t remember where…it’s been a long time) about the importance of giving kids a hug and telling them “I love you” within 5 minutes of them waking up, arriving home from school and getting in bed each day. This simple habit gives kids the human connection, eye contact and feeling of safety and love that they need. This has stuck with me over the years, and it’s something I strive for. It sounds simple, but sometimes, amidst the rush of the morning routine (at least at my house), it can easily get lost.
The same concept is just as simple and powerful in a classroom environment. Greeting each student by name each morning has so many benefits and takes literally less than 10 seconds per child.
How It Works
It’s simple. Stand at your classroom door. As each student arrives, say good morning or hello or how are you or, you get it. Give them a hug, a handshake or a high five. Make up a silly dance or song. Ask them about the soccer game they played in last night. Smile at them.
What should you NOT do? Sit behind your desk, text, grade papers or chat in the hallway with your colleague, while the students enter the room. Why? Think about the message this sends to them. I don’t matter. She doesn’t even see me. He doesn’t care. Are these things true? Probably not, but perception is reality.
Need more inspiration for different greetings? Check out this handy list.
Why It’s Important
This simple habit has benefits that can last the entire day. Here are just a few:
- Gives each student the opportunity to hear their name spoken in a caring and respectful manner (perhaps the first time of the day for some children)
- Allows you to make a personal connection with every student, everyday
- Fosters a sense of belonging in each student
- Aids in students feeling safe, secure and loved at school
- Allows students the opportunity to practice crucial communication skills in a low-risk way
- Gives you the opportunity to “scan” each student’s physical and emotional state each morning (this can come in useful later in the day)
- Sends a message to each student that you care about them and are interested in them as people outside of school
I know this is such a simple strategy and even seems pretty obvious. I also know the reality of running a classroom on a daily basis and how easily we can get bogged down by the details…endless meetings, paperwork, lesson planning, etc. Sometimes we just need a friendly reminder of what’s really important in our job as educators.
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